Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2
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Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
There's a syndrome that I call a "doofus dad" syndromeThere's another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are "better," and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.
This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
Women can't be pulled to what they already have. You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me.
The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don't recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.
No games, just be real with her - don't spend more time that you want.
Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.
Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to take up in another newsletter.
It's not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" girls, and then they are left out ALONE.
Remember that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
Investing all your time with a woman is not a guarantee that you can "keep" her.
I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.
If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And no, we don't try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you'll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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